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DeJuana McCary's avatar

This does seem like a year for loss

Aunt sara in her 90s died today

Josh died 3 weeks ago in a motorcycle accident

Muriel in January from a brain bleed

Shirlee in May with Alzheimer’s and lung cancer

Recently, I had a dream about Muriel and Shirley and josh

They were in a concert hall together and so glad to see me.

So I know your friends that have transitioned are all together probably talking about you and of course, mentioning Olive

Peace and prayers and love to you, my friend

April Henry's avatar

Thinking of that line from The Drive By Truckers: "The secret to a happy ending is knowing when to roll the credits."

I'm sorry for this huge series of losses.

Cathy signorelli's avatar

Kerry, I’m so sorry! Thank you for giving us a hint of each of these dear people. So many people to carry in your heart. This morning reading Patti Smith’s new book Bread of Angels, I came across a paragraph that made me think of your beautiful post.

“Everyone is dead, all if forgotten, echoes a voice. I inventory those still with me. I go no further than the face of my sister, innocent yet all knowing. So long as she is here our memories are ensured. But what of the future when we are both gone? Write for that future, says the pen, for the sake of the cast-off lamb, swept away as ash in a burning attic. The hourglass overturns. Each grain a word that erupts into a thousand more, the first and last moments of every living thing.”

Love to you!🐑

Kerry Madden-Lunsford's avatar

Oh, Cathy, this is beautiful. Her book is on the way to me already - I didn't even know how much I needed to hear this. Thank you xo

Cathy signorelli's avatar

I absolutely love her. She has been such a balm for me during this year of such cruelty from those in power.

Companion loaf's avatar

So sorry to hear about all your huge losses. No wonder you can’t put together an altar this year. You are in the middle of it all and it isn’t time yet to put your loved ones’ photos out on an (w)altar with the sugar skulls and marigolds. You still have to process that they aren’t here on earth. I love putting together an altar but some years the grief is too fresh. Lots of love.

Deborah Wiles's avatar

I love spending time with you virtually here. Take good care of yourself. How lucky we are to be so well loved and to love so well. xoxoxo Debbie

Kerry Madden-Lunsford's avatar

Thank you, beautiful Debbie xo And yes, how lucky we are - and I can't wait to see you in person sometime soon. xo

John Lovie's avatar

That's a lot, Kerry, I'm so sorry. I'm glad you got to talk to Flannery on his birthday. I got to talk to my son Rich on his birthday last week. Also a situation, a different one.

Tracy Owens's avatar

Oh, Kerry, I'm so sorry for your losses. This is too much. Will you email me a link to donate a sleeping bag in Knoxville in honor of your friend? xoxoxo

Susan f markovitz's avatar

just too much sadness for you and Kiffen. I'm so sorry

Amy Koss's avatar

Losing characters, conversations cut off forever. It sucks.

John Lovie's avatar

That's a lot, Kerry, I'm so sorry. I'm glad you got to talk to Flannery on his birthday. I got to talk to my son Rich on his birthday last week. Also a situation, a different one.

caerthan banks's avatar

I’m so sorry for these losses Kerry. It’s too much to process. Thank you for sharing these amazing people.