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TA Tipton's avatar

Thanks, Kerry

What a delicious reflection. The initial words on the piece of paper are somehow comforting. It's so easy to glaze over reality and authenticity... Easier to choke it all down. This is a good reminder to leave the frosting off the cake (now and then). Tim

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River Jordan's avatar

Love this. All of this. When my son was deployed the first time I wrote a very, long nuanced letter fully of details about his life and special moments I remembered. He told me to never do that again. I thought I was giving a great gift as well. Prayers for your fast and total healing.

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Tracy Owens's avatar

I am so sorry you are sick! Another friend of mine in what I call the "Final Girl" club has it.

I have this Allende quote typed up and saved in the back of one of my journals: "At times I feel as if I had lived all this before and that I have already written these very words, but I know it was not I: it was another woman, who kept her notebooks so that one day I could use them. I write, she wrote, that memory is fragile and the space of a single life is brief, passing so quickly that we never get a chance to see the relationship between events; we cannot gauge the consequences of our acts, and we believe in the fiction of past, present, and future, but it may also be true that everything happens simultaneously."

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Companion loaf's avatar

Sorry Covid finally caught you. Ugh. I’m reading these out of order and life is chaos indeed. But you help bring out the beauty. I miss getting long letters. Hope you are feeling better by now.

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